A caged bird.

I honestly believe that part of the way women manipulate men on a daily basis is trying to suppress the fact that men, in general, are superior in many areas of life. A good analogy is that women see men as caged birds. Majestic birds with beautiful feathers and the capacity to fly high above into the sky. Women will try in subtle ways to let these birds know that they cannot fly, that they are not beautiful and that this cage is the best they will ever get and should be thankful for it. Most men will believe this fact. They will put the pussy on the pedestal and just lower their heads while these women slowly suck the energy out of their lives.


Some good women will encourage their man to reach full potential and will support him on achieving his goal. However it is only natural that many will  feel anxious when their partners (or even male friends) start going to the gym, invest in new career opportunities, travel more, get new fulfilling pass times or simply start wearing better clothes. It is true that women despise routine and predictability in their relationships however any drastic change that they see in their partner will trigger dread.

“Why is he going to the gym?”

“he is getting more handsome, is he seeing someone?”

“Does this mean I am not good enough for him?”

A lot of “rationality” goes inside the female mind when men slowly start realizing their true potential. By this point a couple of things could happen, either she adapts to your new self focused lifestyle or you leave her, unable to stand their constant nagging and bitching.

Women, once they get past their dread phase, will start to accept you, respect you and eventually admire you. She will be happy to be with a superior, high quality man. At this point you successfully pass the ultimate shit test. A test that separates the best men from the rest.


Unfortunately most men never go past the initial stages of self improvement. They succumb to their partner demands: “lets live together” “its time to settle down” “man up and take responsibility” are some of the most common phrases that women, and society in general, use to manipulate us. It is incredible how many men are wired to this mentality, specially around marriage. “I guess that is what is expected of me” so they go and marry the first women that open their legs for them (generally a woman past the 30 years old mark) and live the rest of their lives without even realizing a glimpse of their true potential and the freedom that comes with it.


A very important step to becoming a well developed man is realizing this fact. Look around, realize how people try to control you, I am not talking about government and institutions. I am talking about people who loves you: partner, family and friends. These people could be the fuel that takes you to the next level or could represent the chains that hold you to the ground.

It is never too late to break free.

Where women get their power from

Women want to feel valuable. Specially to men. The way women get value is by being attractive to many men. They accomplish this thanks to their physical attributes and to a lesser degree to their personality and attitude. Feminism wants men and women to believe that women are more than their bodies and that they are worth more thanks to their profession, intelligence or career. This is false. Make no mistake, they get their value from how physically attractive they are to men.

Of course they know this. This is the reason they put on makeup, high heels and push up bras. This is the reason why platforms like Instagram and snap chat are so popular among women: They offer the perfect medium for women to get the attention of men.

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19.4k likes and 144 comments that she wont likely read

A good analogy is to think of women as small Gods. They need worshipers in order to exist. The more followers they have the more powerful they become. The Friendzone, for instance, was created by women as a place where they can better control men while not losing the attention they get from them.

Once you discover where women get their power you can finally understand how to get around their first line of defense. Show yourself as someone who does not care about their looks and as someone who is not willing to give your undivided attention so easily and they will see you as powerful. This power brings confidence which is very attractive.

They will use many tricks to keep this power on to you. Its not only makeup and revealing clothes. They will use subtle flirting when they talk to you, they change their demeanor, they will laugh more when they are around you and so on and so on.

The #1 common advice they give you when you get rejected by a girl you like is “ignore her”. For the most part this is not an easy task, specially if the girl is from your group of friends or a setting you regularly go like school or work. Most men don’t really go as far as to completely remove her from their life. This makes the process of detaching slow and painful.

I have zero tolerance for women who deliberately try to make me lose my time. If I already receive a rejection from them then there is only one option left. Ghost the shit out of her. Ignore her is not enough. Make as if she never existed. You will notice a change in their behavior, they will try to get your attention some way or another. Do not fall for this trap. A common mistake men make is that they think that she changed her mind about not liking you and now she is attracted to you. This is wrong, they are just looking for your attention.

Knowing this should help you tremendously. Don’t give your attention so easily and appreciate those who value your time.


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